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When kids get to around two, we expect them to start combining words into short phrases and sentences.

Problem is, many of us parents tend to spend most of our time teaching our toddlers the names of objects.  You can’t make a sentence out of objects only.  Consider:

“Bread fish Australia dog concrete Peter keys democracy”.  It sounds like a doctoral thesis on post-modernism.  In other words, meaningless.

To make a sentence you need at least a noun (e.g. fish) and an action word or verb (e.g. swimming). Otherwise, how is your child going to wake up one day, point to your fish tank, and say his or her first glorious sentence?

“Fish swim!”

Action words are tricker to teach than the names of objects because:

  • unlike objects, you can’t easily see them – you have to infer “swimming” from what’s happening (the fish moving through the water in the tank), rather than simply what’s there (the fish);
  • when they happen, it’s usually only for a short time (especially for goldfish that have had the misfortune of being my pet); and
  • they are used to code relatively complex, sometimes abstract, ideas, e.g. of space, time, and causality.

So which action words are the most useful to teach your toddler?

Short answer: simple, “all purpose” action words that can be used by your toddler in lots of situations and places (we wouldn’t recommend starting with “prevaricate” or “bedazzle”, for example).  Here’s the shortlist list I usually start with, adapted from the famous* Bristol Language studies:

come
do
get
got/have
look
make
need
open
play
put
that’s a…
want

As leading Australian speech pathologist Mellanie Sherwood points out, a great way to teach your toddler verbs is when they are playing with their favourite toys.  Just make sure you teach the verb while you are acting it out or otherwise demonstrating the action – and while your child is watching you do it – so he or she can figure out what you’re talking about.

Not before or after you’ve done it.

* Famous, mainly, to speech pathologists with an interest in early language development.

Key source: Wells, G. (1985). Language Development in the Preschool Years. Cambridge Press, London.

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Banter Speech & Language is an independent firm of speech pathologists for adults and children. We help clients in our local area, including Concord, Rhodes, Strathfield and all other suburbs of Sydney’s Inner West.

Banter Speech & Language is owned and managed by David Kinnane, a Hanen- and LSVT LOUD-certified speech-language pathologist with post-graduate training in the Spalding Method for literacy, the Lidcombe and Camperdown Programs for stuttering, and Voicecraft for voice disorders. David is also a Certified PESL Instructor for accent modification.

David holds a Master of Speech Language Pathology from the University of Sydney, where he was a Dean’s Scholar. David is a Practising Member of Speech Pathology Australia and a Certified Practising Speech Pathologist (CPSP).

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